That SNAKE is cheating on me…

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    Samantha
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    My partner keeps on staying out drinking till very late after a days work. I don’t want to be needy or intense but this is a new pattern of behaviour. When confronted I am just shut down by them and really uncertain how to approach this situation. I feel they are much happier when they are talking about work and anything other than being with me. I am feeling really anxious, can anyone advise me? Thank you

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    Juliette

    I am so sorry you are going through this. Generally a change in behavior can be brought on by a variety of factors. Perhaps he is going through depression, a mid life crisis, has work become unmanageable or an addiction. Either way, he has changed and this is affecting you and your relationship. If it was me I would speak to you, I hesitate to use the word ‘confront’ as can seem very attacking. Instead I would ask how he is feeling, relay facts not opinions, you are coming home late etc, is everything okay? If the behavior continues I would be left with no other choice but to call him out on his changing attitude. If he admits it then you have your answer.

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    Stacey

    My boyfriends shirt had weird marks on it- not sure if it was mascara or not. I confronted him and it turned into a huge row- now I am feeling so insecure and think he is cheating on me. Can anyone advise? Thanks x

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